As promised, here is your Free New Year gift: Sexual Assertiveness and Dominance. So many men lack confidence around sexual assertiveness (or shy away from it because it feels pushy or even "rapey" to them)... and "dominance" can sound like you're either a douche-bag or a some guy in a
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I'm convinced that the reason that so many people are sexually dissatisfied is because there is so much disinformation about what it takes to be a great lover. In fact, most people, both men and women, believe that there are one or maybe two things that, if they could just
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The mating dance of humans is a complex psycho-emotional game that determines who is going to mate with whom... and who isn't. Just like "the birds and the bees" (and all of the other sexually reproducing animals), there's a biological dance that we play out for partner selection, that creates
Sep
10
The sexual landscape has gotten more interesting, more free, and more complicated, and there are more socially acceptable choices for having a sexual relationship than ever before. I currently know two "grouples" who are living completely openly as "3 or more" relationships. One of them is a complex arrangement of
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15
Whether you're a man or a woman reading this, listen up: Real men don't make compromises with women. If you want a woman's respect, if you want her to see you as a masculine "real man", then stop being a wimp, backing down, and making compromises. Okay, okay, okay, maybe
Jun
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Over there... There's that one smokin' hot chick in the room (it doesn't matter if it's a bar, a party, a classroom, an office...) It's impossible to not NOTICE her. A certain amount of energy is humming in your brain and in your body -- because of her. Deep rabbit
Jun
02
This clip is from my nearly-2-hour presentation at David DeAngelo's LOVE: THE FINAL CHAPTER. The presentation represents the most important work I believe I've ever done, and gives the blueprint that decodes what I believe is the most effortless and powerful way to attract and create TRUE AND LASTING
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One of the most important things that people screw up when it comes to sexual attraction is the "sexual" part. Whether you are a woman or a man, if you are uncomfortable with your sexuality and you are hiding your sexuality in an interaction with a person of the opposite
Apr
30
Couples who argue a lot often find their way into couples counseling... and one the common pieces of advice they often hear is: "Would you rather be right, or happy?" On the surface this sounds like a bit of a blow off, like: eat your pride and just agree with
Apr
22
What was your best kiss ever? Would your partner say that YOU are the best kisser he/she has ever been with? Here's the one tip you need to make sure the answer is going to be "YES!" If you enjoyed this video and think your friends might too, please share
Apr
15
Do you know what the #1 mistake is that men make when they are trying to seduce a woman? I shot this video response to a reader question just before we came back from our place in the Caribbean this winter. The reader asked, "How do I get a woman
Apr
01
In this video we demonstrate 2 of the "love languages" described in Gary Chapman's book, "The 5 Love Languages." I've said in the past that I think that 5 is a low-ball and that there are many others out there... but these 5 are a great starting point for understanding
Mar
25
The big take away: Be a better partner to your mate (male or female), not by trying to figure out how to get their approval or their attention, but by working on your own self confidence!
Mar
18
If you've been working hard to get better in some area of your life... from women, to money, to self esteem -- and you're frustrated because you haven't achieved success yet... it could be because you're actually MISSING SOMETHING that is essential for reaching that success. And if you don't
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On one of our weekly calls my mentor Nathan Charles suggested we collaborate on something. Immediately I jumped at the possibility, and I mentioned to him that I had been planning, for at least the past year, to create a program to help men successfully navigate being MEN. Why? Well,
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Since the beginning of our species, there have been men trying to learn how to be more successful in attracting women. Recently, and primary through the Internet, the culture of the "pickup artist" (PUA) has become the most common
Feb
12
Since the beginning of our species, there have been men trying to learn how to be more successful in attracting women. Recently, and primary through the Internet, the culture of the "pickup artist" (PUA) has become the most common
Feb
11
In this interview with my good friend Patrycia Slawuta (Pati), we talk about the roots of true confidence and some simple, powerful tips for dealing with the shame that prevents us from feeling confidence. Pati is currently doing her doctoral thesis on the subject of shame, and her insights are
Feb
11
Burned In A Relationship... How Can You Learn To Trust Again? In this week's video I answer some reader emails about love and trust that every lover, man or woman, MUST deal with in ANY relationship...
Feb
11
In this interview with my good friend Patrycia Slawuta (Pati), we talk about the roots of true confidence and some simple, powerful tips for dealing with the shame that prevents us from feeling confidence. Pati is currently doing her doctoral thesis on the subject of shame, and her insights are
Feb
05
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