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I honestly don’t think penis size has anything to do with good sex. if a couple are
only interested in penetration sex..it may play an important part, but great sex
is not only penetration…
To me, sex encompasses everything that one can think of, this side of getting
really kinky and wanting to hurt their partner.
I don’t think any woman should be used and abused to give her male partner a
thrill…and vice versa. there should be some ground rules laid before they
get started.
I will allow no penis in my ass…but I love a sex toy in my ass, while using one
vaginally…that takes me over the top…
i love giving a BJ…i can have 5-6 orgasms just from doing that…
I really do appreciate a man who treats me like a woman…compliments me on my hairdo,
clothes, how sexy i look, touches me very tenderly…those kinds of things gets him
anything he wants…
There is also “a look” that some men have, and it can be across a room, and I’m ready to
take my clothes off and go sit in his lap for sure…
I am a widow and I find most of the men that are really interested in me are married.
I can’t figure out what that’s all about…but these are intelligent, handsome, affluent and
wonderful guys, and they are wanting sex from outside the marriage…
Some of these guys got so serious that they were ready to divorce their wives. So now, i have to state right up front…”Babe I just want you for your body”. I don’t give a damn about your mind, or you job, or your marriage…this is sex for sex sake…nothing more, can you
handle that.” They all say yes, for a little while then something changes…
men….sex….what’s perfect, what’s not…
I am having more and more older men wanting to “finger” me because they cannot get an erection…I find that really disgusting and I won’t do it…a finger will never replace a penis…
thanks for letting me vent. June
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I’ve also noticed that some men want to “finger” a lot or even do oral a lot and it can hurt and just feels weird…agree it can’t replace intercourse with a penis. and what’s important is not the size, it’s how you use it, and everything, not just the size. Can’t handle a man that’s too big though…
You should have anal sex its so good and powerfull orgasm
The feeling is very intense
Me and my wife do it regurly it respecting your partner and treat her like a women
I’m honestly very disturbed that you talk openly about having affairs with married men whom you describe as wonderful. I have so much fear around having a relationship that doesn’t contain infidelity that I have chosen to be single and celibate for almost three years after my first relationship of only 2.5 months, and I’m only 26 years old. To me, cheating means that your partner does not love you, and I can’t find a way to see it any differently. Maybe I’m naive. Maybe I need to grow up. But seriously? People talking about it like it’s okay? If it’s really just an insecurity I have, then what does love even mean? What does it even stand for? I’m not totally sure that I know what love is, because my relationship exploded and left a pretty nasty mark on my history. But to me, sex should be treated with much more respect than that, and intimacy in a loving relationship should too, even more so. I really hope this comment gets approved, because I have a really serious problem respecting people who behave like this, especially who justify it even though they have a choice, and I want some answers- knowing how often cheating happens, I’m too afraid of betrayal to even look for love with people who seem trustworthy. That is no way to live. It looks to me as if humans can’t even control whether they hurt each other when they WANT not to. Maybe having a deceased partner changes everything that much. But I have lost faith in love. How can I see people who cheat as people again??
By the way, Alex, I know your personal story, and I respect you for sharing it. But the main reason I can do that is because you described yourself as a bad person looking back. A lot of people tell me I am very black and white. On this subject, I don’t have a problem with that. Does anyone agree with me?
Hey Nathan, I’m sure that a LOT of people agree with you! (Including lots of women!)
The problem that you are having, and it would truly serve you, and your satisfaction in the course of your short time here on this planet, if you matured into accepting the fact that a lot of people don’t agree with you.
It’s generally easy for us to be okay with it if someone has different taste in food. You prefer chocolate, I prefer vanilla, no big deal. But on more emotional issues– like whether you love Trump, love Clinton, or think they’re both horrible… when people disagree with your stance, you feel like they must be insane or simply don’t understand the world the way you do.
And while that may or may not be true, the fact remains, humans evaluate life very differently.
I have friends who are in loving, committed polyamorous relationships who experience the depth and beauty and aching sweetness of True Love every single day… while not counting sexual exclusivity as a high value. In fact, while they may not be completely free of every shred of jealousy or possessiveness, they have intentionally declared that complete freedom to explore every aspect of the authentic range of their sexuality and sexual desires is more important to them than maintaining sexual fidelity. Most importantly, they feel powerfully that they want to their lover to have the privilege of exploring the full range or their sexuality too.
Are they right?
Of course not! There is no right to the matter.
To you, cheating means your partner doesn’t love you. But I can assure you, you’re not “right” either.
You can disagree with me here too– I promise not to be offended– but I have a ton of experience with many hundreds of men and women in this delicate and emotionally complex area, and I do hope you’ll at least consider and carefully weigh my suggestions here…
First, you should do a deep exploration of why infidelity is so frightening for you. What would happen if a woman cheated on you? What would happen if she broke her promises? What if she lied flat to your face knowing she was going to cheat, but knowing you couldn’t handle that truth? What if she intended to stay faithful, but was overcome with other emotions one night and never meant to hurt you? What if she really wanted to have sex with some other man, but didn’t only for the reason that she didn’t want to hurt you? What would these things mean to you? What would they say about you as a man? What would they change about who you are at your core?
I think if you are honest with yourself, you’ll find some insecurities lurking under there– some fears of abandonment, of feelings of not being worthy of love and the fear that if she were another man, she’d realize how unworthy you really are… (Important spoiler alert: All of us have those fears, and none of them are remotely true).
It is not that hard to find a woman with those same insecurities, and you can live in that bubble of fear together, not daring to voice the truth of your animal desires so as to avoid hearing the truth of hers. Many perfectly good marriages are build on this foundation, and they can be both loving and durable.
But the the bottom line is that once you’ve contemplated the simple truth that cheating might happen, and what it truly means to you and your fears and insecurities, you will then have the opportunity to make a starkly courageous choice:
To stand in the face of your fears and choose Love anyway.
I don’t care if you think cheating is wrong and hate all the worlds cheaters for ever and ever… But if you let your FEAR of cheating continue to rule your soul, and keep you from daring to love, then on your death bed you will reflect back on a life of smallness and emptiness and loneliness.
Don’t let that happen.
Fuck the pain! Fuck the fear! Dare to love anyway for the sake of your one shot in the Universe of living your life fully and boldly and completely expressed as this man named Nathan.
People cheat for an enormous and complicated variety of reasons that generally come down to an unavoidable truth: Humans are imperfect and sometimes we do things we promised we wouldn’t. Even you.
Thank you for your reply, Alex. Your clarity of mind helped me realize that what I’m really upset about is not cheating. You said what I thought you would say, but I am glad you did. What I’m really worried about is being willfully excluded from another person’s life, especially in the face of being welcoming to them. But in that anger at being excluded once, I got angry at what I thought was the kind of person who excludes me, the earlier commenter.
She’d never reply to me. I basically want call her shameful and disgraceful. This part of me is like a psychotic feminazi. But there’s reasons I feel this way!
There are values I hold and feelings I have that I need to be respected. And I feel that this woman is a person who doesn’t respect those feelings and values of mine, and honestly I feel that this person is the kind of person who makes the world a worse place! I’m angry that I can’t say that to her face. I think she’s disrespecting humanity! I want to communicate. My ex didn’t- she ran away from conversations I wanted to have with her where I told her what I truly thought, just like this one I’m talking about. Did I want to make her feel ashamed? Yeah, at some points! Why is that bad? People should grow up! Feeling ashamed isn’t something one should unilaterally avoid no matter what forever! It’s something one has to feel if there is a glaring lesson about life that one needs to learn! Everybody gets affected negatively if we have people running around being selfish, self-righteous, immature and irresponsible people who try to make everything they need to grow up about a problem for everyone else instead! Good and bad things really do happen on earth. It makes me very angry when people try to run away from responsibility and ethical truth. That’s what I saw in that comment. That’s why I had to reply. And this is what I’m really angry about.
My ex excluded me, jumped to false conclusions about me when I tried to cross the bridge to get to her, and tried to avoid any and all conversations I would have had with her where I would have said something that might have made her feel bad- conversations we really needed to have in order to create a healthy relationship. I lost my patience! Am I the bad guy for this? Everyone’s feelings are valid. That means every feeling. Every feeling has an important purpose.
I never saw for sure that I was being cheated on. I dated a woman who didn’t like me that much and didn’t really want to keep me and I still tried to keep her. If things went differently, it might not have ended the way it did, but the way the relationship was progressing, it most likely would have become an abusive relationship where I would have been the abused. She had become someone who made being her boyfriend unfair. Hurt people hurt people. She was definitely hurt. I want to break the cycle by facing the truth like an adult, and forcing others to face it too. I failed to do that with her, and now, she probably still thinks she’s right and I’m crazy. I don’t have patience for selfishness or irresponsible, manipulative behavior anymore. I need to make it happen less. That’s who I am. So I am headed straight toward ensuring that happens now, because this failure was one too many. Look out, those of you who justify your actions without taking responsibility for them…it won’t be easy to get past me.
Was that venting? Because describing it as ‘venting’ makes it sound like it’s not something people need to hear.
*Focused stare*
I know there are insecurities under my surface. I know I’m not perfect. The difference between me and the person I complain about is that I’m not going to accept my imperfection indefinitely. I constantly work toward being a better person, no matter what that might ask of me, realistic or not. I long for a person to love with whom I can be vulnerable and forget about the fears that I sometimes feel in those insecurities. I have not dated very many people in my life(only intimate with one). And I find that my attempts to find someone I really want to be with either land me next to someone who plays subtle games to protect themselves, someone who is kicking so much ass that I often start feeling inadequate, or someone I realize is probably harmless, but while I’m still too suspicious to just chill and give the benefit of the doubt- and that’s discounting the dating sites I’ve used that charge men but are free for women. I just don’t want to feel like people intentionally try to keep me away from the people I want to spend time with. Being afraid that someone will cheat on me is a side effect of getting convinced that I don’t have the ability to choose someone who would never cheat. And someone who runs away from their own faults is NOT someone who would never cheat.
To me, here’s the definition of cheating-
having sex with someone while you have a deep relationship with someone else when that someone else wouldn’t be okay with it. That includes secrecy, the foundation of manipulation.
I think I’ve said enough. Thank you me clear my mind. I write down those questions and answered them. You’re good at what you do. But what I have to say goes beyond what you said in your reply. At least, I hope you can see why I believe that. I think we as a race can’t afford not to. Standing in the fire and choosing love anyway is only half the solution. I am not afraid of standing in the fire and choosing love anyway. I am afraid of Compassion Fatigue. I know someone who literally experienced Compassion Fatigue and ended up in the hospital because his wife didn’t appreciate him. His doctor told him it would happen and told him to leave her because of that! Compassion Fatigue is a real phenomenon that can, and has actually caused death. Is it still not ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ we’re talking about when people can end up with their health or even their lives on the line when they care too much for someone who doesn’t deserve it? There are important ideas behind this. And to me, this is not a joke.
If you want to believe that there is no right to the matter of human life, or that somehow, if there is, that relationships are exempt, that’s okay. But you will eventually suffer because of that if you do. I mean no imposition, but eventually ethics make sense. I know you are a good person, Alex, so I’m not worried about you… I just needed to speak my mind on this.
Nathan this is great work! I appreciate your fierce desire to get the truth in all of this, to find the bedrock that you can stand on to make love work for YOU and on your terms!
A few more tips for you based on this, and I think if you act on them, you’ll get exactly what you want and quickly.
1) It’s my perspective after studying this stuff for a long time with some brilliant mentors and reading the most current psychological studies on this that, no, there really isn’t any good reason to shame people. Shame is not, as you suggest, a good vehicle for people to grow. It’s only a vehicle for them to shrink, act out, and occasionally shoot up a school with a semiautomatic rifle.
It’s important to understand the difference between disagreeing with what you think is an unacceptable action or behavior, and declaring that a person is bad because they did it. People feel like they can change their actions, but not who they are (people can change who they are, but it’s very, very hard and slow work, and shame does not motivate them to do it).
Parents who explain to a child that they did something wrong get far better results than parents who tell a child they are bad for doing it. There is a huge gulf between thinking someone is wrong and thinking someone is bad.
Again, this is a hard piece for many folks to get, but nobody does what they think is bad based on the facts they have and the perspective they see those facts from. If you had both their facts, and their line of perspective, you’d do the same thing. Give them new facts or a new perspective and you’ve got space for growth. Give them shame and you’ve got an enemy.
Now it’s been observed that how a person does one thing is how a person does everything, so it’s a good bet that, intentionally (as you did here) or unintentionally… or even unknowingly… it’s a good bet that you shamed your ex for not agreeing with you or for her unwillingness to stand and communicate about it. She was WRONG and a bad person for not being willing to talk things through.
I suggesting, as strongly as I am able while trying not to offend you, that she would have stayed and talked and worked on the relationship if she were with another man (perhaps a future version of YOU) who was not shaming her.
2) Read the book “Attached: The New Science Of Adult Attachment And How It Can Help You Find And Keep Love” by Levine and Heller.
It’s got exactly what you are looking for to help you figure out your pattern so that you don’t keep repeating it.
You have what is referred to as an “anxious attachment style,” and you are repeatedly romantically linking with women with an “avoidant attachment style.” This is very typical since Anxious and Avoidants often attract– and they always end up flaming out the way you describe– one partner doing the shaming, the other doing the “game playing” and withholding.
I think you’ll find it remarkably insightful and impeccably researched, and I think you’ll find that they have laid out a clear path forward for you to find the relationship you’re looking for.
I’d just like to say – this conversation is so nice to read, from 2 obviously genuine nice people. Kudos to you both.
For June. Will you not allow a penis because you’re afraid of disease or size? If you were married would you allow it? Also do you agree that hardness is more important than girth, and length? Last question, it was noted in the report that 6″ is the perfect size. How do women know that – from using 6″ dildos or are they guessing?
Hey Rando, you can’t ask one woman the question, “how do women know that?” because it’s obviously going to be different for different women. And very few of them are going to say it was because they were doing size tests with dildos.
In our current culture some women still only have sex with one man in their lifetime and only after marriage. Some women only have sex with men they love. Mot the vast majority of women will have dozens of lovers across their adult years and will have a good idea of what their preference is.
Also, in today’s world, even a virgin is likely to have seen enough porn to know what it is physically attractive. You probably had a “cup size” preference for breasts long before you had your first girlfriend, right?
Let’s not make this personal about one of my readers. For YOU and YOUR LIFE, what matters is what YOUR woman likes, and based on what you are seeing here, no one woman can answer these questions for you.
Alex, honestly you don’t think those answers were hypocritical ? Come on . Women are not gonna be honest about this subject and when they are it will be harsh so they have to protect themselves . That’s why they never honest . I’ve been with many women and I’ve asked them and they all say the bigger the better and if someone is small they have to get used to it some how . That’s the real deal . Women don’t know what they want . I’ve known many that cheat on guys with big dicks too .
Mike, if you want to be happy in this lifetime, you have to get good with interacting with humans. And humans are always going to be imperfect creatures… Just like you.
Are women hypocritical?
Of course! ALL humans are hypocritical.
We all say things to the boys that are different than we say to the girls. We are all nicer to attractive people, or to that rich guy that might have a big business opportunity for us…
And most of all, we all feel differently in different moods. We are complex. We say we love our country, but then justify to ourselves that it’s okay to take that personal dinner off on our taxes.
30% of the women on the survey said they lied to a man when he asked about his penis size. Was it hypocritical of them to admit that on the survey or just honest? Was it hypocritical for them to lie to their man… or just compassionate?
Most men know in their hearts that “looks shouldn’t matter” when choosing the woman you fall in love with. But for 90% of us, we know in our hearts that it does. That physical attraction is extremely important to us.
Humans are often dishonest because it’s very complicated to always tell the truth. Especially to men like you because, based on your comment here, we know that you judge women that don’t fit your standards. If you want the truth more often, you’ve got to be cool with hearing the truth.
The truth, according to my female readers, is that some like a bigger penis and some don’t.
I’ve worked with a ton of women now on their most intimate and embarrassing sexual issues, and I promise you, some women prefer smaller penises, and most prefer average to huge.
It’s depressing to me when men rant about how terrible women are for cheating when exactly the same number of men cheat.
It’s not that women are bad or that men are bad… it’s that all of us are human.
If you want a relationship where neither of you cheat, then you have to become the kind of man that gets that kind of relationship. Period.
My programs, my blog, my youtube channel, my facebook page… all of them are designed to help you become that man.
And, finally, Mike, I’m sorry that I did not approve your last comment. There is real value in having you here to contribute your point of view… I know many men feel exactly the same way that you do, and I appreciate you having the courage to voice those opinions for all of you… but your last comment was overly hostile and included a personal attack (calling someone “a piece of garbage”). I’d be grateful if you’d continue to post your points of view here, but please keep it above board. Thanks man!
Hi Alex, and what will your youtube / blog etc be. I really like your way of dealing with situations and how you analytical brain works.
Thanks Andy, you can find me on youtube at http://youtube.com/allmanalex
Great info Alex, I feel great about myself in light of the info given, I do have a question for you about being turned on or not turned on by your lover, I am with a woman who doesn’t have attractive waist, hips, butt, legs, and I want to be turned on, like with other sexy women, but am not, she has a nice smile and personality, but how to i turn the turn on switch so she does turn me on?
Thanks
Jason
Hey Jason, that is a sticky one, and the answer is not simple. Here are the two biggest tips I can give you:
1) Focus on the parts of your lover that DO turn you on. Notice them, dwell on them, fantasize about them, talk about them, take joy from them. And when you catch yourself dwelling on the other parts, stop, and re-focus on what is attractive to you. Over time this will do some serious re-wiring.
2) Link your heart to your cock. This is also a process over time, but during sexual arousal and pleasure, connect up to the tenderness and sweetness you feel for her nice smile and personality. You will begin to wire up your arousal mechanisms with these qualities in favor of those physical ones.
Both of these processes really do work, and they do require time and focus. The intensity of your focus and the consistency with which you do it will make it work faster.
In the end, your physical preferences count to, and there is no shame in desiring what you desire.
thank you Alex for help the guys to know the truth really really appreciate it.
Alex, from what I’ve gathered, women seem really only concerned with size if it’s really big or really small. Anything in the middle isn’t that important to them. What do you think?
Hey Odin, it sounds to me like you didn’t watch the video. Women are LESS concerned about size than just about anything. And the average size, 6 inches, was the favorite (with everything from 5-7 being by far the most popular).
Ok granted Alex my message was hostile I’m absolutely meant only to just lift men’s spirits because what was said to me was insulting to any man . But now possibly this should have been my old message I have to ask you don’t think that a woman saying she wishes her husband was bigger and thinks of her ex lover bigger penis disrespectful at all? How would any man respond to that ? I know and I’m not nieve to know that all women compare their current lovers with past and that most want a large man like your surveys truth provided . I would like to know your opinion on what you think on how a man should carry himself in response to a woman hes with ever says something to that nature? Or says he’s the smallest she ever had ? These things obviously happen I’m starting to believe more than ever to a lot of men and it’s ruining our confidence with even speaking to a woman . There’s a lot of angry hurt men out there and hearing women say anything like that intensifies strong emotions.
Thanks for re-writing Mike. Here’s my perspective on it, and it’s not an easy one:
Men don’t need the protecting.
The question is whether you need your woman to lie to you in order to feel confident, and the answer is probably yes sometimes! But… that’s not the end goal. The end goal is to be confident with the truth. The truth should not be impossible for us to deal with. My friend Sean Stephenson is 2 and a half feet tall, has various bone deformities, and is stuck in a wheelchair, but he’s full of confidence in himself as a man. If he can do it, a man with a smaller than average penis can do it.
I respect the woman that tells her man the truth about what she really feels more than I respect the woman that says, “yes, I’m totally sexually satisfied,” when in fact, she’s not. That is the seeds of a relationship breakdown in the future.
Plenty of men have complained about their woman’s breasts, or her waistline or her ass… “you gonna order that chocolate cake after that big dinner?” I have 2 friends who recently bought their girlfriends boob-jobs… they paid because it was their idea.
And, yes, of course both men and women compare to ex lovers, to the ones we are glad are gone, and to the ones that got away and left us heart-broken. We’re human, and our minds do all sorts of stuff when we aren’t paying attention
In the specific case that I mentioned, this woman brought up her small penis concerns precisely because she loves her husband and wanted to work on it. And guess what… they are one of the happiest couples I know now.
If a woman honors you with difficult truth, demonstrating that she believes that you are the sort of man who is confident enough to take it, the correct response, in my mind, is “thank you.”
Hey Alex yes your info was good an yes I can agree with most of what you read but, if a woman will never tell you the real things she wants from a man in any kind of relationship speaking as the ghost can we trust them then on your reporting? Maybe I guess it just means that we as men just have to be confortable with what we have and go on from there. RIGHT!!!
Hi Alex Thanks for the information you provide. from what I got from the video is that size does matter, women want at least an average size penis that is hard. One subject you didn’t talk about was whether there was a difference between a circumcised and uncircumcised penis, the way it felt during intercourse to women.
Hey Dave, I didn’t put this into the survey, but I can tell you from talking to women extensively on the subject that for many women it has to do with what they grew up with in their culture… which is to say, American women are more likely to find a circumcised penis attractive (or more “normal” looking), and European women frequently feel the opposite.
I spoke with an American woman who told me that men who aren’t circumcised are less enjoyable to go down on because the foreskin collects sweat and can smell funky… but when I said that to a European woman she looked at me like I had two heads and said, “What? yeah, I suppose, if you are dating a guy that doesn’t bathe!”
The main thing is that it certainly doesn’t feel any different and at best it’s a tiny piece of preference. It would be like a woman asking me how men felt about women who had a few freckles on their arms. In other words: Life is too short for you to be wasting time on this issue.
Hi Alex. Interesting reading. Despite what women might say, the fact is that of all male mammals, men have the largest penises; why? because our great, great, great grandmothers, for what ever reason, chose them to mate with them so that trait was passed down to future generations. BTW, on the flip side, of all the female mammals, women have the largest breast because our male ancestors found that to be a desirable trait which was subsequently passed down to later generations. These larger “sexual ornaments” were passed down because of sexual selection by both our male and female ancestors. Also I’ve heard of studies that indicate that despite superior oral or fingering expertise, intercourse is the most satisfying for couples despite the ironic notion/fact that it is more of a challenge for a woman to orgasm via intercourse. Personally, since I’m not a human tripod, I’m grateful for the knowledge provided by individuals such as yourself which gives us average guys the internal confidence to be better lovers. Finally, for those women that left a man because he was “too big”, I’d venture that he wasn’t skilled in pleasing a woman. One more item to consider; even in romance novels or at least the ones I’ve attempted to digest, the writers (most of whom are women) don’t describe the male heartthrob as one with a small member. Food for thought
Hi Ernest, It’s a strange thing that humans do: We look around for information to prove that our internal insecurities are real. There is a deep part of us that just doesn’t want our suffering to be taken away because it’s a part of our identities.
You might also be interested in reading about “confirmation bias”. It boils down to this: Republicans can only see the mistakes Obama makes and they see the “proof” in them, and when he does something that comes out well, “he was lucky.” Democrats only see his accomplishments, and any mistakes he makes were the fault of having to operate with those stupid Republicans in congress. The thing that’s so sneaky about confirmation bias is that they aren’t doing it to “win” or to be “right”… it occurs in their mind as obviously the TRUTH. Republicans think that Obama is PROVABLY and idiot, and Democrats think he’s PROVABLY a righteous man doing a great job… and they are both convinced that the facts are on their side.
My point being, you did a good job of finding facts that support your insecurities, but none of them are particularly true. It’s a deeply over-simplified (and also wrong) explanation of evolution you’ve got there, and I’m sure that you did read it somewhere which makes it sound true. We believe shit we read. And I’m sure lots of grow-your-dick pill pushers out there will quote these “studies,” but… they’re bullshit.
The vast majority of mammals have larger penises per body weight than humans. Do you think female horses prefer the look of that big cock and that’s why horses have big dicks? lol. We do have the largest penises relative to body size of the big primates (humans, gorillas, chimps, and orangutans), but that is hardly proof that human females like a big cock and chimp females don’t. The size difference is rather minor, and is as likely explained by body mechanics (we walk more erect than they do so depositing semen more deeply in the vagina is a fertility advantage), or perhaps their penises shrank relative to ours because of evolutionary pressure involving increased injury or infection of a longer penis.
Penis fossils are hard to come by. No bones. Nobody actually knows the answer to this question.
Seen a peacock lately? That’s what happens when sexual preference kicks in in the absence of predators. With our fire and spears and group coordination, if women were selecting for big cock, we’d all probably have 26-inch bats hanging down to our ankles.
You also may have noticed that human females do not have uniformly large breasts (unless you are in Hollywood or Dallas, and I’ve got some news for you about the breasts in those cities that you might find disappointing). As many women have tiny breasts as have giant breasts, and that must mean that someone’s been going around and mating with all those small breasted women for the last million years. And for what it’s worth, I’m one of them, and have always had a strong sexual preference for smaller breasts.
Oh, and also, you have clearly not read much in the way of women’s romance novels. The big cock is a male porn thing and does not get fetishized in the vast majority of women’s romance novels.
I truly hope this helps you my friend. Let it go. It is not serving you and it is not true.
I prefer a nice ass over tits physically sexual attraction is in her personality for me. I cant have sex with someone unless it is meaningful. I don’t blame women if they don’t like my size. Physically im a huge guy with an average penis. But because im so big they assume im well endowed. Its a turn off for most women that im so large. I understand its scary even though im more like a teddy bear than an actual bear. I only wish that when it came to the physical part of me they would look past it and were attracted to me for who I am on the inside. But again I cant blame’em.
Hey John, there are women that are focused on looks, and many women have some specific hang-up… I know women who won’t date men with bad teeth, or short men, or tall men, or hairy men, etc… but MOST WOMEN will overlook pretty much anything physical if you understand how to trigger their sexual attraction with your masculine presence.
Most men simply get this wrong and think that masculine = macho… and nothing could be further from the truth. Most women find macho = insecure, and roll their eyes. They might tolerate it if everything else is great, but they do not prefer it.
Particularly in a large man, like yourself, understanding your masculine side is important because it’s easy to come across as either scary, or to overcompensate and come across as “too safe” because you are sensitive to their fears.
sir alex i’ve a question for you, why is it you dont include nigerian people as among those that purchase your publication cause i can not have access to books since nigeria is not included. pls try to include our so that we can buy your product. thanks
So sorry my friend, it is not my decision. I process payments through a company called CLICKBANK. They are very, very good and offer super security for my customers and great service for me… but like many companies, they don’t take credit cards from Nigeria or a few other countries where fraud is extremely common. I wish had another way to help you with this, but most of the payment processing companies are the same.
There is no need to have big penis for desire what satisfaction u are giving tour partner is valuable i advise not to take any medication or use any instrument for enlargement
I’ve experienced enough partners to know that penis size DOES NOT MATTER at all, and frankly I think that any woman who says it does, only thinks it does because a bigger penis is more likely to rub against her G spot or A spot, so she’s getting the best stimulation possible (but only when the penis is inside her). The real difference here is that If a man and woman only know how to have penetrative sex, and the man doesn’t know how to move his penis inside her in order to stimulate her in the utmost way, then both are likely to think that his penis size is the issue – WRONG. Knowledge and skill are literally the ONLY thing that matter when it comes to not just good sex, but fantastic, out of this world sex.
Some women might like the idea of being ‘filled up’ by a bigger penis, but that’s just a psychological thing that has nothing to do with physiological size. I would guess that they likely want to feel overpowered and dominated by the bigger (in every way) man. What’s far more important is the man’s confidence in his sexual skills (and his actual ability), and unfortunately most men don’t have a clue how to really satisfy a woman sexually. Luckily that is finally changing, but very slowly, and there are still very few men who know anything at all about these skills.
The best lover I’ve ever had owned one of the smallest penises I’ve ever had, and it was his knowledge of the female body and his skill that made him incredible in bed. He knew how to give a woman over the top oral sex, as well as using his fingers on the G spot which gave me multiple orgasms, at least 20 or 30 each session. I also liked the fact that I could get his entire penis, as well as his balls, into my mouth all at once. I’ve also been with men who had penises that were too long, that slammed into my cervix and hurt so bad, I didn’t want to have sex with them again. I actually don’t like giving oral to an oversized penis, because I can only cover so many inches down my throat, and the rest of it gets neglected. I’m also a squirter, so trust me when I say that I’ve been with more than one man who knows the higher level skills that can REALLY rock a woman’s world.
It is true that the girth of the penis is far more important than length, since girth is what will rub against the G spot, etc., but equally as important is the man’s willingness to be patient and spend more time in foreplay to allow the woman to become fully engorged and lubricated. The woman should have had at LEAST one or two orgasms (preferably more) before the man’s penis even comes close to entering her, and if she hasn’t, the man isn’t doing his job properly. The size of his penis is NOT the issue – the size of his EGO and willingness to learn IS far more likely to be the real issue. Of course, some women have issues about sex due to abuse, etc. that keep them from relaxing and enjoying sex, which should also be addressed when working on improving any couple’s sex life.
I have an average-sized vagina, and therefore an average-sized penis works best for me – 6 to 7 inches max; 8 inches or more is too long and hurts. It should be noted here that just as men have various-sized penises, women have various-sized vaginas, so the ‘ideal fit’ for each person is determined by BOTH people.
Thanks Linda, you should know that I ABSOLUTELY AGREE with you on a holistic level. Penis size does not matter at all.
However, not everything can be seen holistically as not every man has equal confidence with his penis size and not every woman is turned on by the same things that YOU are. There are women that love men with tattoos and women who are frankly turned off by them… and just as there are men who equate breast size with attractiveness, there are women who just love a big penis.
If you want to talk those women out of their opinion… good luck to you.
It’s impossible for one woman to meaningfully state, “I’ve tried ’em all and size doesn’t matter,” if her purpose in speaking for all woman. You can’t possibly know how other women feel about this.
The very serious consequence of this for men is that many men have had negative experiences in this regard. 1 in 5 women I surveyed broke up with men over penis size. This simply can’t be ignored.
The most important point you make, and the one that I am teaching men, is that the ego response to his penis size is the issue far more than the physical, and that if he can get that handled and find his sexual confidence, curiosity, and masculinity without regard to the tape-measure, he will be able to please any woman.
KNOWING that, and DOING that are two different things, and my programs are designed to help men bridge that gap.
Actually, Alex, I CAN possibly know how other women feel about this, because I’ve taken the time to talk to hundreds of women about this and other sexual issues. Obviously I don’t know what ALL women think, but nobody knows that.
The point that I believe you are missing here is that of the women who broke up with men for penis size, sometimes that was due to TOO LARGE a penis. Let’s not forget that’s part of that statistic – unless you asked 2 separate questions, one for too small and one for too large. In addition, a woman may SAY she’s breaking up with a man due to his penis size (as a way of really hurting him in a big way), but many times that’s not the REAL reason she’s breaking up with him, it could be something else entirely, like how he treats her, etc., or maybe she’s found another man who is a better lover and therefore she gets better sexual satisfaction, which may not have anything at all to do with his penis size. Yes, some women are mean enough to say this to a man just to hurt him, and for no other reason.
In addition, as you said yourself and we are in agreement on, the man’s EGO in relation to his penis size and/or his sexual skills plays a huge part in this as well. When a woman is with a man who is not fully confident in his sexual ability (whether it’s insecurity due to his penis size or his sexual knowledge or skills), that insecurity in his confidence translates to a woman on a subconscious level as ‘not the right size penis’ because his EGO is not where it needs to be. Most women are easily turned off by a man who is not confident in his sexuality, regardless of the reason for his lack of confidence, and whether it is actually true or not.
All of these other scenarios need to be factored into the statistic of men who’ve been rejected ‘due to penis size’, particularly if the rejection was due to the size being ‘too small’.
I don’t doubt at all that there are women who actually believe a bigger penis feels better, or works better for them, etc., but I still think it’s due to one or both of 2 things – the larger penis is able to rub against the G spot easier, especially if the man doesn’t know what he’s doing, and some women just like the feeling of being ‘filled up’ by the penis.
In my own experience, I realized from actually feeling a smaller penis inside that the amount of pleasure I get from it is no different than the amount of pleasure from a larger, or even average-sized one. What really makes a huge difference to a woman in this regard is how engorged she is at the time of penetration. The more time that is spent in foreplay and therefore engorgement, the less that penis size is an issue at all, or can even be felt once it enters. I’m talking about a level of engorgement that is far beyond what a large portion of people have ever experienced.
I actually prefer an average to smaller sized penis, because there are so many more things you can do with it that you can’t do with a larger one. Certain positions are far easier, and there’s no chance of pain from hitting the cervix that way, in addition to making oral sex much easier on the woman.
Personally I think that overcoming the ego problem due to penis size is not the number one problem men need to work on – it is number two. The number one problem is overcoming the ego problem so as to learn the skills to satisfy a woman, whether the penis is engaged in the activity or not. When a man is confident in his sexual skills irrespective of the penis, he can still fully satisfy his woman even when suffering from erectile dysfunction or any other problem associated with a non-working penis.
Hey Linda, I know that mean well by your post, and you and I seem to be agreement on the important parts. If you’ve watched the video and seen all of my other posts on the subject, then you’d know that I have said over and over again:
The issue is a problem for men, not for women. Men are insecure about their penis size and it affects their confidence, which affects their ability to satisfy their lover.
The “cure” for men, however, is not so simple as “just get over it,” any more than “just get over it” works for anyone with insecurity or past trauma.
The cure also isn’t to pretend that it doesn’t matter to any women when it does.
For what it’s worth, and only because you’ve called me into question and I want to make sure that the record is clear, the “statistics” are my own study, and I clearly state that exactly as many women broke up with men for a penis that was too large as did for a penis that was too small. It does not change the simple fact that 1 in 5 women broken up with with a man over his penis.
This is not according to the men. This is according to the WOMEN.
No woman says this to a man to hurt him! The opposite is true. They tell him something else to SAVE his feelings. And they tell other women something else to not sound shallow or “dick-obsessed”. This is something that they shared only in confidence and anonymity, and only because I crafted the questions carefully to not trigger their shame.
The truth is not something we ought to stick our heads in the sand over just because it doesn’t suit our ideals. It is only from the bedrock of the truth that we can build real solutions that allow men to be confident with the penis they were born with.
I do deeply appreciate that you are trying to encourage men, and that you experience and preferences are man-positive, and that you are very correctly pointing as strongly as you can to the fact that this issue is much more psychological and emotional than it is physical. I’m grateful for women like you, and I know for certain that your romantic partners have been very lucky men.
Vaginismus, sometimes called vaginism, is a condition that affects a woman’s ability to engage in vaginal penetration, including sexual intercourse, manual penetration, insertion of tampons or menstrual cups, and the penetration involved in gynecological examinations (pap tests).
This is the situation with my girlfriend . I also have ED but use a medical pump or some tri-mix injection . I cannot penetrate , the vaginal opening is like a brick wall . So we engage in oral and vaginal and anal fingering. She even prefer this over vaginal penetration as she is very clitoral more so than vaginal.
Hey Alex.
This reply is directed at Linda. It’ wonderful that you are a woman of such elevated thinking, Linda; most men’s concerns with this issue would be easier to handle if more women had an outlook like yours. You should freely recognize, though, that you are not the MAJORITY here. Maybe you’ve been blessed with the lovers you’ve had; perhaps you’re more mature, in your flirty 30s or more and have grown enough to get out of the BS thinking. Fact remains, until they get the real “ah ha!” insight that a Big Dick does NOT equal a great Lover, a lot of females DO have a fascination with attractive cocks, and in most regards, attractive usually means “bigger”.
Be it social programming, Western culture’s obsession with “Bigger being better”, or whatever….this IS a problem, and its not just in the heads of men. The very fact that you mentioned the “psychological” factor of a woman wanting to be “filled up” INFERS to how important the perception of size is. I am a follower of Alex, and own ‘Unleash’….by far, one of the Best personal sexual education modules I’ve invested in. It is well worth listening to, in terms of just understanding the importance of Masculine & Feminine mindset, let alone those that surround this issue. You, Linda, represent one of those women who Alex spoke about that DO understand the difference between “big Cock” and “Awesome Man”…. but, much like Alex says of ‘Cock confidence’, this is an aspect of you which is LEARNED , i’m willing to guess, not something that was intrinsic. In regard to your honesty, I’ll share a bit myself.
As a fairly attractive 30s guy, I have little problem talking to and engaging women, so I date quite a bit. I’ve always had fair amount of ‘Cock Bravado’; the student in me amassed an impressive list of skills in Theory of sex, even before i “officially” started at 19. Coming from a family of guys who on average are 9,10 inches (and have gone to 14) and being the only one well under that, ‘cock confidence’ didn’t come quite as naturally. My most regular partner currently is very cool in much the same way you are; mature sexually, adventurous, honest, considerate and experienced enough to know what she wants and what the differences are, as well as compassionate. We have what she calls “wall Cracking” sex; along with her mindset, it probably helps that we have been friends for years. That doesn’t mean even a great girl like her, who KNOWS size has little to do with it, hasn’t outright STATED a preference for “9 and above”. And she did this in a discussion we had in bed, after sex, speaking of her other sexual partners outside of me.
She’s not my only partner, and like her, the others express great satisfaction in our intimate encounters, often seeking me out for some. But when a girl you care about says something like that, how can you, as a guy NOT recognize that size can still be an issue? And she’s not the first woman of quality I’ve heard openly admit to “enjoying” big dick. Is it a psychological reason? Maybe. does it “feel” fuller inside her? Logically, one would think so, though there are, as Alex can teach, techniques for making one “feel” bigger in a girl. This doesn’t change the fact that it can STILL make you as a man feel “lesser” in some way. Even after making a partner literally soak the sheets and come so hard they pass out, the preference or appreciation for bigger penis is still there, in the woman. How can you account for that?
Now mind you, she DOES say our sex is “so good” because I listen to her body…I engage her in many different ways….I “get in her head”, and connect with her emotionally. So, what Alex teaches hold true: those factors DO influence the sex more greatly than dick size. That doesn’t MEAN , however, that dick size ISN’T an issue. Worse yet, this matters BECAUSE the woman means something more to you. My personal experiences with this have varied.
One girl i was in a relationship with got a taste of ‘big dick’, and, knowing I was a bit sensitive about it, said “You could get bigger…”. After her, another whom i loved dearly was literally seeing me and one other guy, whom she was drawn to equally. She was frank, stating “Yes, it feels different with him…but it is not “less” with you because of less there. You are sufficient. YOU are enough.” Recently, another friend whom had only been dating me and was literally VOWING not to be with other guys because our sex was so amazing started so a few months after i left the country. Even despite asking “when can I come over?” when I came back, she off-handedly mentioned that, thanks to the confidence I’d helped build in her, she seeing a new guy…and he was “soooo HUGE!” and “The sex was so good now”…. now, she didn’t do this hurtfully, mind you, but it still stands: to say “dick size doesn’t matter to women at all or doesn’t affect sex” is something of a half truth.
Because i try to cultivate honesty with any woman I see, I admire and create a space where we can share our sexual stuff freely, with no judgments or worries. I never really worry about “losing out” my partners to other guys, despite money or status or size or whatever other reason. But, even elevated as my thinking is and as awesome as i know i can make sex for a woman, I’d be lying to say such a reaction from them DOESN’T sting a little. Now, i recognize, this is MY inner reality; personally, i abhor feeling “less than” in any way, especially in stuff I feel i could control. And it does go back to our programming as social animals; everyone wants to be “more than amazing” in the eyes of others, especially those whom we care for.
But on a very basic, animal level, men want to be physically “as masculine as possible”, and a portion of that will be highly invested in our physicality and masculine member. Conversely, unless she’s had a bad experience with big dick before, there probable will be an animal fascination with big dick in all women. This might be especially prominent in certain social groups, but its an underlying factor for all of us, so i believe. Alex’s teaching go a LOOOOOONG way to reprogramming these beliefs, but one can’t simply “undo” years of societal programming.
I point this out to say that, its not merely something the “guy has to turn off” or “the girl has to react to”. In a friendly, intimate or loving relationship, at least, how the WOMAN sees her guy, and how she herself regards the Penis Effect, will go a long way towards maximizing his masculinity. To make it so the women reading can understand: this isn’t simply a “logic’ thing with us; we can KNOW we have pleased you, see you come over a dozen times, and still feel like we have more to do for and with you. This is a FEELING issue; just as you ladies need to “feel” feminine and beautiful, we need to FEEL our dicks are more than merely “adequate”, but actually PLEASING to you. And affection for a person IS a mitigating factor; if a woman genuinely loves going down or feeling her partners dick, he is going to be VERY male with her no matter WHAT his size is.
Alex. I think the large penis size has only an erotic value for some women . Just as for men, the size of the breast is .
which is the best medicine to make pennis large or is there any drug that gives pleasure more time
The porn industry has totally destroyed the entire sexual movement of both women and men. It makes me want to fucking vomit. 99.9% of all women and men in this country has a total misconception about sex due to the fucking porn industry, which is totally controlled by the illuminati. If there is anything men or women can do to keep sexual sanity to dump all porn shit. Sexuality between any man and woman and bisexuals and hardcore lesbians and homosexuals is a human experience and adventure that can only be appreciated by the chemistry that goes on between people. Everyone should know sexual chemistry unless you’re dead from the neck up. It is natural or your gut instinct about a person. I for one have always gone with my gut for major business decisions and especially human relationships. You have to be savvy enough to rely on gut instinct or else you are a totally fucked up person. The truth is that the day you are no longer influence by the TV hype about how to be sexual and the shit load of crap published on the net and in gadzillions of magazines, that is the day you begin to know who you truly are and you can stop this disgusting facade of who you aren’t is the day you portray the real you. There is nothing better than to be true to yourself and that’s the day you blossom into the person that people will totally respect you.
After my bladder cancer my erections were less than perfect. My wife left me after 28 years during the after cancer problems. Went threw Viagra, pumps, injections, etc.., after 3 years of semi perfect erections, and developing Peronise disease, I decided to get a penile implant. I use to be around 6′ and now with the implant I am around 5″ kind of flat but as hard as rock for as long as I want. Seems weird but it works. I haven’t had intercourse with any woman yet so my anxiety is quite high with regards to my performance. I have met someone terrific who we really enjoy each other company. My question is should tell my future intimate partner all my issues?
Hey Gspt, there’s no easy answer to this. There is appropriate timing to reveal personal information during courtship.
I am a huge believer in authenticity (as you probably know!), but that’s not the same as emotional vomiting of every personal detail of your life on a first date.
What you have here is a gray area in the middle. There is absolutely an appropriate time to tell your future intimate partner that you have had a penile implant due to a medical condition, that you are self-conscious about it, that you don’t want to hide it from her.
When should you tell her?
Is it essential that you tell her before the first time you have sex?
I can’t answer these questions for you.
But I think that if you bring real intention to not lying, deceiving, or hiding anything from her, then the appropriate time will reveal itself. Just keep in mind that there is no “perfect” time, no “right” way of doing it, and no magic trick to it.
There is no guarantee of her reaction, good or bad, either. It’s just life, the hand we are dealt, and our time at the table to play as best we can.
My honest “gut feeling” about this is that it’s going to be fine and everything will work out well.
Oh yeah, you also mentioned size… look at the data again on this page… the fact that you can last as long as you want is going to impress her WAY MORE than the size will be an issue for her. Especially if you learn how to use it right (hint: buy this program!)
I have read all the posts on here, and basically,I think Alex has given allot of good information. From my sexual experience, and my point of view, is… its’ all about how a man treats the female, does he view her as a sexual object or something to prove his masculinity, or is it a true desire for appreciation, mutual desire and lust, and focuses on the moment with his lover, enjoying, pleasing one another with mutual respect,where penis size, body image does not factor into it…as a female, I like to feel the emotional along with the sexual energy, otherwise I feel it is a meaningless act.
If you are in a dark room feeling around for the light switch… no matter how much you rub the wall, if you don’t hit the switch you will get NO LIGHT! Understand what I am saying? So it is true that a bigger penis has a better chance of bumping into the switch now and then, only because it covers more area.. but that doesn’t mean the person attached to that penis knows what he is doing. He just has more “hands” rubbing against the wall looking for the light switch in the dark.. chances are he is going to hit it now and then. But if a guy who knows where that light switch is, uses his tiny penis against that switch.. I guarantee you that he is going to get that light on far more often that than the guy with the clumsy big dick.
Everyone can go back and forth about what they think the problems are, but the answers will most likely not work for every person and every case. That is the amazing quality of the human being… we are all different. You are all beautiful and no one else is exactly like you. That makes you all unique.
I feel that the real problem is that most women do not know their own bodies and how they work.. in the idea of getting off. They think they do, but they don’t (now understand that when I say that, it is not EVERYONE… remember what I said above.. we are all different). In addition to the problems mentioned.. there is a lack of communication between partners and they need to start telling each other what they like and don’t like.. in a way that does not start an argument. Make it a playful erotic game. And talk dirty… women love it.. be dominant in your dirty talk. Tell her what you are going to do to her and how much she is going to like it. Tell her how much she turns you on.
As I said above, most women do not understand their own bodies… well, then men understand women’s bodies even less.. which is understandable, and that is why men need to be proactive in learning how to please a women.
If a woman can get off with just a finger or two.. then penis size obviously is not the problem. Any man can make any woman have multiple orgasms with just their hands.. that is a fact. If they can’t then they don’t know what they are doing.
Start positioning your woman in a way that your fingers or penis are hitting the right upper wall area.. you will get amazing results – regardless of the size of the object you are using to make it happen.
You women that have not had a good experience with a smaller man… well, he didn’t know what he was doing. And most likely, the guy with the big dick that did hit the right spot more often… he didn’t know what he was doing either.. he just covered more area.
Hey Rob, I agree with most of what you say–except the light-switch analogy. The truth is that the vagina is elastic and expands to fit any penis. There’s no hunting for “the switch”… the entire surface of the vagina is contacted with any size penis.
There are other factors, of course… the angle of thrust, as you pointed out (where size makes no difference), and the feeling of “fullness” that women get from being with a thicker man or a man who penetrates more deeply (where size does make a difference).
In terms of orgasms, it’s certainly fair to say that size is irrelevant.
So basically if you have a small dick that won’t get hard and you have insecurities about it you should get used to a lonely sexless life (like mine) or just kill yourself.
Jesus Glenn! It’s hard to imagine you misunderstanding this post more.
If you have a small dick that won’t get hard and you have insecurities about it you should DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Having a small dick, like having ugly feet, is not great news, but is sure as shit is no predictor of a lonely, sexless life. It’s a great excuse, of course, if excuses are what you are looking for. But it’s bullshit.
I always bring up my friend Sean Stephenson here (seanstephenson.com) He’s got some pretty serious deformities, he’s 3 feet tall, he’s stuck in a wheel chair. Now THAT’S a good excuse for feeling sorry for yourself. He could legitimately look most people in the eye and say “THIS is why I have a lonely, sexless life!”
Only thing is, he’s married to a beautiful and wonderful woman who adores him. And before her, he had plenty of girlfriends and plenty of sex. And let me tell you, he got rejected A LOT. While there are close to zero women who consider a small dick a deal-breaker for sex, there are plenty of women who are put off by the wheel chair. But he’s charming as hell, has a huge social network, and WORKED AT IT like his life depended on it when he was in his early 20s. He knew that he couldn’t get EVERY girl, but he got PLENTY of attractive women because he never gave up on himself.
So, yeah man, go ahead and feel sorry for yourself and just sulk around if you want to. That’s your choice, your responsibility, and your fault. Your happiness is entirely your decision brother, and I know some people would just rather be miserable because it’s easier than having the balls to put yourself out there and DO something about it.
If that’s you, there’s no reason for you to read my blog. I wish you luck, but you’re in the wrong place.
If you want to DO something about it, then read the rest of the articles and watch the rest of the videos that are here, get Unleash The Beast, and go through every part of the program and do the exercises. Real change happens only when you DO something.
All animals have mating rituals! What is it that humans have that sets us apart? What is our ritual? Speach!
Skin is skin, breasts are baby food. Lips, to feed. There is only one sexual organ, and that is the brain!
Cheers Mr Alex. A bit of dusting, self analysis and critical thinking should be done in private! You have confirmed my thinking. All a woman wants is for the man to be is emotionally present and invest time into her. Ie, take what he wants and needs. Exactly what a man wants from a woman is to pleasure her. My pleasure is her pleasure, her pleasure is mine… And it creates a wonderful feed back loop… (Theoretically)
First off if a woman breaks up with a gUY because he has a small penis she is an IMMATURE and hypocritical its as similar as a man leaving a woman because she has put on weight Thier is plenty of substitute s for this issue its just a cop out to abandon a relationship if the guys a DECENT guy and she leaves him for this she has issues of she meets up with the next guy and he gives her wall to wall counseling oh well don’t cry for me Argentina that’s why our world is so screwed up women don’t have to worry about these issues so its easy to be HYPOCRATES and quitters
I HAVE A 6 INCH PENIS BIG AND MY WIFE IS VERY HAPPY
DOES WOMEN LIKE UNCUT PENIS OR CUT
I agree. A woman would have to be so shallow, superficial, insensitive and cruel to end a relationship with a good guy (who she likes so many of his other qualities which are far more important) just because he has a small penis.
Well, we all know that there are shallow, superficial, and insensitive people out there. About an even number of them, I believe, are men as women, and I have heard many a story about a man breaking up with a woman because she started to look older, gained weight, or wouldn’t get a boob job. The good news is the important part though:
MOST PEOPLE aren’t like that.
Can you make your dick bigger
According to doctors, short of surgery, no. There is no scientific basis for it to be possible. The websites that sell the idea that you can use pseudo-scientific sounding ideas that seem quite plausable, like “micro tears that cause the tissue to grow, just like muscle”… except that the penis is NOT muscle, and micro-tears just cause injury.
HOWEVER, when I surveyed my readers, while most said that even after months and months of daily stretching and following these routines they saw no gains, SOME said that they did, in fact, have minor growth. This is more than likely because of stretching of the attachment ligament, which unfortunately can ultimately lead to downward pointing erections.
If you want to get all of the benefits of a bigger penis, and you have any lingering insecurities about it, you should absolutely try out my Unleash The Beast program (linked above). It’s made a “huge” difference for thousands of men.
Webpages like this have so much wisdom in the comments from all sides of a discussion. That’s the real “gold” in the internet. Love it.
YES!
I have a 12 inch penis but I don’t use it as a rule
Alex, what are the statistics on men who do not have orgasms during sex? I have times that I cannot have an orgasm (not all the time but on occasion) and it concerns me because my girlfriend seems to be overly concerned about it. She gets insecure that I didn’t and acts like it somehow reflects badly on her. This is like a complete role reversal. It’s not that I lose my erection during sex, I never do, it’s that I just have to give up after a while because I become afraid of hurting her. -Yes, too much sex for too long can cause pain and other issues for a woman-. After she has had her many orgasms and I can tell she is exhausted and spent and ready to pass out(figuratively speaking) I suggest we can stop but she gets insecure knowing I have not orgasmed and wants me to keep going even though I know she will suffer the next day, and all because she wants to make sure I’m satisfied as well. Honestly, knowing that she had a good time and is satisfied is all that really matters to me because if she is satisfied then I am satisfied.
Well, It finally got to the point that whenever I feel like it won’t be my night too, I will actually fake it, just to spare her feelings. I was worried at first that she would be able to eventually tell I was fibbing because of no ejaculate being present afterwards, but she never has. I think this may be due to the fact she is an extremely wet girl anyway when it comes to sex.
Am I doing the right thing by lying to spare her feelings? Why does she worry so much about it anyway? I’m the GUY so it’s my job to make sure she is taken care of and that’s all that matters to me! We did have conversations about it and I told her what I already mentioned, that her feeling good and satisfied and taken care of in that department made me feel amazing whether or not I had an orgasm. But, she still always acted insecure when it came up, until I started faking it. What should I do? Should I just keep faking it to spare her feelings? Also, does this happen to other men? You always hear about women faking it but not men. Any advice you might have would be very appreciated.
Hey AJ, men not being able to ejaculate or orgasm during sex is pretty common– but nobody has any good stats on it, and very little research has been done. I get plenty of emails about it though, and I’ve worked with quite a few men who have had the issue. MOST of the men have one of these 3 things going on (though not all):
1) Most common is too much porn. Cut it out, completely, for at least 30 days, but possibly as long as 90 for anything resembling normal function to return.
I’ll also include a sub-set of men who use kung-fu grip while masturbating and can’t get off with the considerably diminished friction and strength of a woman’s vaginal muscles.
2) Older men whose T levels and libido have dropped but still love sex and often (not always) are using Viagra to get an erection.
3) Men on libido killing prescription depressants
Let’s get to the important bit however, since you don’t seem at all concerned with the issue in terms of YOUR pleasure.
So… you really don’t understand why she’d be insecure about this? Come on my man, let’s be honest here– if the tables were turned and she didn’t have an orgasm during sex, and finally said, “hey, let’s stop because I’m getting sore… I didn’t come, but as long as YOU’RE satisfied, I’M satisfied.”
Haha… well, I get so many emails from men who are near suicidal over that exactly situation, and I’m pretty sure, Mr. AJ who says, “Honestly, knowing that she had a good time and is satisfied is all that really matters to me”… that you’d be up a tree over it.
Now, let’s take it one step further: You found out that she was regularly faking it to spare your feelings. Feel good about that? No? Hm.
Sitting with this little role-reversal exercise will actually tell you everything you need to know about how to deal with this, but let’s pretend that you’re just not getting it, and I’ll lay it out for you:
She doesn’t want to hear, “as long as YOU liked it, it’s all good.”
What she does want to hear is: “I LOVE MAKING LOVE TO YOU.”
She wants to hear that touching her beautiful body is the most thrilling thing in your life. The feeling of being inside of her makes you want to live forever and provides the balance for all of the suffering on the Earth. That ejaculation is great, but that it is far from the most pleasurable aspect of sex, and that the feeling of her breath on your cheek, the erotic intensity of the wetness of her pussy sliding against your cock, and the shared closeness of being able to openly enjoy your infinite desire for her body is 1000X more rewarding and fulfilling.
Then throw her down and make love to her, and ejaculate or not, roll off and say, “Wow! I love making love to you! You are my goddess!”
To paraphrase an old ad that the Swiss watch industry used to run: Faking orgasms is for fake relationships.
Alex, as you said, there are women who prefer a smaller penis. However, many women don’t admit this publicly because they would seem “uncool” and “not going along with the majority” so they hide that truth. I really wish that you could’ve given a percentage of the women who answered that did prefer a small penis. Even if it was just 10 -20 percent, it would’ve given men who have smaller penises feel that there are women out there specifically for them. Also, there are many men in the 4-5 inch penis range. I would’ve liked to have seen what percentage of women had no problem with men’s penises in the range. Lastly, while your research showed that 65 percent of women said penis size mattered, (doing the math) 35 percent must have said penis size didn’t matter at all. I’ve heard many women claim penis size doesn’t matter at all, is totally irrelevant when it comes to sex. I wish you made more of an emphasis on that 35 percent when you presented your data.
Hey Stephen, these are all excellent points, thank you.
The numbers I have reflect the data I collected. If I had it to do over again, I’d have collected info on women’s opinions of the 4-5 inch range, etc. However, I think the larger point than “35% say size doesn’t matter,” is that the 65% that said that it does matter, still rate it far less importantly than intelligence, kindness, maturity, ambition, emotional availability, a sense of humor… or good shoulders or a nice smile.
Alex, there is something I really need to correct you on. The actual average penis size erect is neither 5.88 inches nor 6 inches. From many recent medical studies that I’ve read from very reliable sources, the exact erect penis size is 5.14 inches. In other words, the rounded off number that all the websites I go on say the average size erect penis is around 5 inches. Also, many of those reliable sources claim that 70 percent of men are in the average range of between 4.6 – 6.0 inches or between 4.5-6.5 inches. Finally, those studies claim that 90-95 percent of men are between 4 to 7 inches. While I don’t have the links to those sources they are easy to find, accurate, and logical.
Throughout my entire life, I have always been very insecure with the size of my penis. It is just around 5 inches erect, maybe slightly below. It’s the main reason why I haven’t really dated and avoided relationships with women. A man’s penis size is what he was born with. He has no control over it and can never change it. I have always been afraid that a woman would commit the ultimate mental and emotional abuse against me by judging me by the size of my penis (something that I can’t help nor change). So many women out there insist on a man having a large penis (that means 7 inches and higher). I can never give a woman that and neither can millions of other men who either have small penises or average size penises.
I really appreciate Alex taking the time to do this extensive research in asking over 2,000 women how they feel in regards to penis size. I also appreciate Alex’s honesty in regards to telling us the results. However, for every man like me who does not have a large penis and have always been insecure about it, those results have justified those insecurities and are very alarming. With 65% of women saying penis size is important and 20% saying they have dumped a man because she felt that a man’s penis is too small scares many men like me. While Alex did mention that there were so many other qualities in a man that were far more important to a woman than penis size, most men, like me, will have a difficult time feeling better and will always be alarmed by the 65% and 20% numbers that I just mentioned.
So, how can a man protect himself from those women who have penis size preferences and are size queens who must have that large penis? I’ve given this a lot of thought and I have a strategy for men to protect themselves and avoid the ultimate cruelty committed by women by judging men for size of their penis and dumping them because of it. When you are dating a woman you ask her one question well before sex or well before the clothes ever come off. That question is “Does penis size really matter to you, is it really important? If she answers no (she’s part of the 35%), then the guy has nothing to worry about, can put his mind at ease, and can feel good about continuing the relationship. However, if she answers yes (part of the 65%), you need to ask her this very important follow-up question, “What is the lowest length that would be acceptable and okay with you? If you happen to fit within that length range, you can feel comfortable proceeding with the relationship. However, if you’re not within that range you then tell her “Since I do not fit within your length requirements, we can’t go any further and should end this relationship. That way, men protect and save themselves for the future heartbreak that would otherwise come later. Remember, once when the clothes come off it will be too late. She would have the horrible shock and disappointed look on her face and it will be all downhill from there as she will make you feel terrible all because of the shallow reason of not liking the size of your penis. Don’t let it get to that stage. Men need to protect themselves by asking the woman these questions well in advance of sex. Otherwise, a woman can completely destroy a man’s confidence and self-esteem because of this issue. If I did decide to try to get involved with a woman, this would have to be my strategy because mentally and emotionally I just couldn’t handle that kind of cruel and shallow rejection from a woman.
Sadly, over the generations, it’s really sad what has happened to the majority of women. Since the sexual revolution, the majority of women have really changed and not for the better. They have become far more demanding of men sexually. To them, they must be satisfied in the bedroom or else. To them, they must have specific penis sizes or else. Had an extensive survey of 2,000 women (like the one Alex did) been conducted on the importance of penis size in the 1950s (before the sexual revolution), there is no way a majority of women would’ve answered yes to that question. Back then, there were far more women who remained virgins until they were married. Back then, the majority of women were more about love and romance and not about sex and the size of body parts. Because we live in a different world and society, it’s really sad how women’s morals, values, and heart have fallen. I don’t want a woman to judge me by my penis size. I would just want a woman who could love me for me. I have a lot of good qualities that I bring to the table that I think women would really like. Those are the qualities of who I am on the inside. That’s what I would want a woman to judge me on and determine whether or not she likes me or she could love me. I don’t ever want to be in a situation where a woman were to judge me on something so shallow and superficial as penis size which should be completely unimportant in the grand scheme of things. Love and romance should be the priority. That mental and emotional connection between a man and a woman should be the priority. I think most men today would agree. Sadly, most women today wouldn’t. That’s why there are so many men today insecure about the size of their penis and afraid to date.
Hey Stephen, I thank you for your raw and vulnerable comment.
I’m sorry to hear that it sounds like your fears and insecurities have gotten the better of you, and because of that, you are seeing the world in a distorted fashion.
This quote from you:
“Love and romance should be the priority. That mental and emotional connection between a man and a woman should be the priority. I think most men today would agree. Sadly, most women today wouldn’t.”
If I showed this to 100 women, 95% of them would laugh out loud at the absurdity of it. Yes, yes, it is sadly truth that emotional connection does not have the weight it used to in today’s electronic friendship and pornified world… but that issue is at least 10X worse among men than women.
The vast majority of women hopelessly yearn for that rare beast of a man who is willing to put forth love, romance, and mental and emotional connection.
Most men put forth dick size.
And here’s the thing you are not recognizing: Including YOU.
In your case, you’re putting forth your insecurity about dick-size. That’s what you’re leading with. That’s your strategy: Tell her up front that you’ve got a small penis in order to protect your fragile, delicate ego that simply would shatter into a million pieces if a woman didn’t approve of your penis.
Here’s an important fact for you that you might have missed: Of the 20% that said they dumped a man over penis size, the majority said that it had to do with HIS INSECURITIES about his penis size that caused the problem.
I can assure you that more men have refused to date a woman over breast size, and for no reason other than physical preference.
My friend, more than just your relationships – your entire LIFE – will be out of control if you can’t get past your fear of humiliation, and learn to find the kind of self-acceptance that would make any woman crawl across broken glass to be with you, regardless of your penis size.
If I were you, I would immediately invest in my Unleash The Beast program, and go through the material as if your life depended on it. Because it does.
Allan, I totally disagree with your defending these women. The ultimate question you should ask women is this: What’s more important in a relationship, sex or love? The 65% that said penis size matters, would choose sex. The 20% that committed the ultimate cruelty against a man by dumping him over the size of his penis, definitely chose sex. However, the women who say that penis size is totally irrelevant and doesn’t matter at all are the women who choose love as the primary importance in a relationship. I’ll put this into perspective even more. Polls indicate that 50% of men are insecure with the size of their penises. If a man were to hear from a woman, “I don’t care about the size of your penis, I love you for you” or “what matters to me is the size of your heart, not the size of your penis” or “I love your penis, but not because of it’s size, it’s because of the man it’s attached to” and “there is nothing more important than loving someone and caring about someone.” I happen to be what could be described as a hopeless romantic. If I was to ever here those beautiful sentiments from a woman, all of my life-long penis size insecurities and anxieties would completely disappear. Why? Because I would then know that it doesn’t matter to her that I don’t have a large penis, she loves me. Therefore, I’m sure the millions of men like me (50 percent) would also have their penis insecurities disappear if only they could have a special woman in their life who would have that loving, caring attitude. Neither the 65 percent of the women who said penis size was important, the 20 percent who cruelly dumped a man over the size of his penis, nor the 33 percent of women who said they wish their partner was bigger, would ever express those beautiful sentiments to a man I just described. At the end of the day, there is nothing more important than love. When someone is insecure and hurting so much inside, love is the only cure. Unfortunately, it appears, from your survey, that the majority of your 2000 women you surveyed don’t feel the same way. That’s why you have so many insecure men afraid to get involved with women.
Well Stephen, I certainly understand your perspective, and I’m sure that hearing this was scary for you and confirmed some of your fears… and adding to your currently perspective I’d ask you to consider a few things…
1) So many more men than women have been dumped (or never even considered giving a chance to) a woman for some physical imperfection. Many humans are more interested in the outside than the inside– they come in both genders, but most of them have a penis. Ask any woman over 50.
2) If you are such a romantic, and you truly believe in the power of love to change a man and his confidence, why don’t you believe in the power of love to change a woman and her preferences?
I have STACKS of emails from men who were insecure about their penis size, and who learned how to be better lovers to their woman by connecting to her heart (through Unleash The Beast or one of my other programs), and who have exactly that:
That afterwards their woman told them that their penis was the “perfect one” for her.
Most of that “majority of 2000 women” you are talking about would drop their penis size preference in less than a second for a man they could experience True Love with…
3) But it’s very hard for a woman to experience True Love with a man who is riddled with insecurities, subconciously doesn’t believe he’s worthy of her adoration (because of penis size or any other reason), or is defensive and rules her out as “shallow” or “cruel” simply because she has a “preference” that does not perfectly match exactly what he has.
I know many men who prefer giant breasts that are very happily married and in love with a woman with average breasts… do you think it’s just impossible for women to do the same thing in reverse because men are just somehow better and more emotionally mature than women?? Surely not.
Oh my gosh, Alex, you are my hero!!!!
I love your responses to everyone here, and I love your straight up no chaser, down to earth videos. Cold hard facts and truth, not sugar coated shit. Lol
What you say is bang on (pardon the pun) and there is sooooo much insecurity around things that are really unimportant in the big scheme. On both the female and male sides. That’s the real killer.
You rock!
Huge virtual kisses and hugs to you…..keep on spewing the truth.
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Bottom line is women know what fits for them and what works for them. High on that list sex wise is passion, lust, excitement, spontanaity, tenderness, security and experimentation. Get to know her body and mind. Listen with all your senses and complement her as you take her and ravish her. Put her 1st, 2nd and 3rd at the minimum. She will reward you 1000 times over.
Tell you this guys. If that 4-5 inch cock of yours gets rock hard as she whispers in your ear and puts her hand on your thigh, you are golden. If she takes her clothes off and starts rubbing and sucking and your 9 inch cock is flaccid and you need a pill to get it up….it ain’t good no matter how big it is. Oh that pill will get you hard and you can fuck her senseless but she knows….she knows there can and should be more.
One last thing…start foreplay the day before. And not just the physical kind. Mind fucking her a day prior to the deed will have her an the verge of her first orgasm just by looking at her if you warm her up correctly. Tell her what you want to do to her…or better yet, what you want her to do for you. And that could be as simple as telling her to wear her hair in a pony tail, paint her fingernails and toenails red, put on thigh highs, etc. If your woman does not want, enjoy and crave foreplay of all kinds then MAKE HER ! It sure as heck benefits both of you.
Why is you’re system is better than anybody else its basically the same stuff they tell us that the will make you dick grow I’m average and i be ordering these crap and my dick is still the same average size so what makes you’re stuff any different.
Hi Errol, what’s different about my system is that I don’t claim in any way that your dick will grow.
In fact, it is my belief, after consulting with many doctors and researchers on the subject, that all of the “grow your dick” sites out there are scams. Because billions of dollars are in the market, it’s well worth it for them to pay companies that create social media accounts under fictitious names to make false claims and testimonials.
Unleash the Beast is for men who are fed up with that nonsense and ready to look at what women really want in a man and in a lover, and to get past the common and self-defeating limiting belief that their masculinity is in any way confined by their dick-size. This can be deep work, and it is a progressive rebuilding of self esteem around sexuality.
Only problem is, you are still nothing more than a con artist. The thing is, I figured out all of your secrets halfway through your presentation. You literally gave me the answers to all of my questions in the first minute of talking. So no I’m not going to pay you. But I do thank you, if I hadn’t seen your promo, I probably would still be clueless to some of your techniques. However i did have a little bit of a head start. Good looks and COMMON SENSE has always given me a leading edge above most men, despite my average size. Now here’s a tip for you. Stop lying. FREE does not mean $50 bucks. And stop telling guys that they could lose their penis forever from some pill or surgery. A lot of men who don’t know any better might actually fall for that and that’s a seriously faulty move. Long story short no matter how good you make a woman feel in bed, if your still a douche bag, like I’m thinking in true life, you are, you will still be a lonely and unloved sorry old man, cause real women despise a**holes.
thank you for your time and also sorry, ..kind of not sorry. Bye.
Hey Kyle, it’s actually my intention to give you actionable answers here, and for sure not everyone needs my program. There is no con here, though you are right to be suspicious since this area is FILLED with con artists that say they can grow your dick. They can’t. It’s my intention to help men grow their self esteem around their sexuality, and to recognize that dick-size means exactly zero in terms of their ability to succeed with women sexually and romantically.
For what it’s worth, you could probably benefit from my program, as the open hostility and needing to prove your worth by telling a stranger you have attributes that have, “given me a leading edge above most men,” are pretty clear signs of insecurities and “imposter syndrome” (the fear that someone will discover you’re not as cool as you pretend to be).
The lesson that I hope you learn some day is that the people that love you (your friends and family), and people like me who have been where you are and are genuinely trying to help, we see right through your act, and we care about you not because of your act, but in spite of it.
Good luck brother.
Re; Kyle or (kid)
Your page does say:
“Because there are only two “real” options left for you,if you want to have a bigger penis:”
Bigger penis….. from YOUR page, just a hook.
OPTION ONE: You can take your chances with penis pills… deer penis wine… or stretching your penis like an African tribesman…
OPTION TWO: Or you can keep reading, all the way to the end…
And like every other badly designed webpage, it takes forever to get to the end…to much going on and on about how you can help, click now, click the button for all the answers, don’t miss this opportunity….blah blah blah.
And then there are the other pages with different URL and title that in the end are still yours….
That sir is a con.
Hey Andreas, I’m sorry you’ve had a bad experience brother.
I think you are confusing what I am saying here, in this informational blog post, with what I am saying on the next page that you click through to, which is a SALES page.
It’s not a “con,” but it IS a sales page. And sales pages are designed to encourage you to buy. Now this program is so excellent and it has had so many powerful life changing effects for so many men and couples (every testimonial is real, and if you want to run to the FTC and make accusations, I can promise I have the original files and backup for every one of them)… so I feel pretty good about trying hard to sell it (a.k.a. Get men to buy it and USE it).
As it turns out, I did not personally write the sales page, a professional copywriter did. And truth be told, I’m not completely comfortable with it myself. It’s not a con, but it is kind of a “hard sell,” and it bugs me. It works extremely well however, and it’s hard sometimes to quit what works, especially if the result is happier humans.
That said, I have been planning for a long time to re-write it in a more straightforward manner and test it. I may, for all I know, get even better results, because some people (like yourself), find the current copy off-putting.
Anyway, if you’re concerned that it’s a con, but you feel like the program could help your situation, then I hope you won’t let the hard-sell video stop you. The program is great. If you don’t like it, I’ll send you a refund (indeed, my customer support just takes care of it, and I won’t even know you refunded it– we have a simple, no-hassle policy, so it’s pretty easy.
Obviously, because I run a business, I need sales. That’s just a reality. I gotta put food on the table and pay the rent like everyone else. AND I do want to help. So if you have any questions, I’m here.
Alex, do you have the data for the distribution of women who said under ___ inches is too small? I see that 60% of women said “less than 4 inches” is too small”. What did the other % say was the point of ‘too small’?
Hmm… I’ve got to see if I can dig that up. I’m sure I do have that exact data somewhere, but I no longer use the same survey/data system, so I have to find the downloaded csv files and re-extract! What I do remember, and I discuss, is that the vast majority of women are quite happy with the 5.5 inch average. The thing that I hope men take away from this however is that plenty of women will say they don’t like it when men have lost all of the hair on top of their heads… it doesn’t mean they’d rule out dating him… it’s just a minus. Same with dick size… The thing to remember is that some women will exclude a man for his penis size (generally because he’s too big), but you know, some men will exclude a woman because he doesn’t like the size of her breasts. Preferences are natural, and we don’t need to make a big deal out of this one in term so what WOMEN think.
Look, if you were black or asian or hispanic or white or whatever… and a woman was said, well, I’m not attracted to that… you’d say, whatever, your loss.
But the size of your penis is different ONLY BECAUSE WE MEN are afraid it makes us less masculine. Then we pretend it’s the women that think that… but it’s not. It’s 100% in our own heads, regardless of her preference.
well yes, Alex, I am 76 and I have neveer been very large in size must be because I am 5’4″ But morning wood? what a joke, I don’t ever remember that even when I was in my 20s and newly wed. Now, I have shrunk and just NOW after 3 years started ejaculating again. But spontaneous erections? Not happening now if ever. Low T? High estrogen? How about thyroid? are those factors in erection and morning wood?
At 76 there are a lot of reasons for not getting morning wood– and all of them are above my pay grade. Of course your T levels will be quite low compared to 20 and 50 years ago! And only your doctor can tell you how dangerous or good it might be to take HRT… it does increase the risk of everything from prostate cancer to heart disease, so it’s a tough call at your age. There are many other possible things going on, and again, this is a conversation for your doctor, not for me or any of my programs.
If the doc gives you a clean bill of health and you agree that HRT is a good idea, then we might have something to talk about!
Take good care of yourself my friend! Don’t wait until they just sadly shake their heads and say there’s nothing they can do. You can quite easily go tomorrow or have a few good decades left, and while you can’t control everything that goes into choosing your future, there is a surprising amount that you CAN do if you have the will.
Best of luck on where ever your journey goes from here.
I’d be really interested to see a table or otherwise link to a dataset from your survey, since it seems like it would be a waste to have collected all this data, only to present a few results from a few questions.
Hi Novus… I have the rest of the data, tables, and all that kind of thing inside of the Unleash The Beast program. There’s really no good reason to keep it behind a pay wall like that… and, you’re right, I really should get it up on the site at some point.
Hey Alex, when you polled the women on “what size would be too small” what options did you give them? like, “Less than 5 inches”, “Less than 4 inches”, and “Less than 6 inches”?
It was a long time ago now… but yes, I think those were the options. Though it is possible that it was a “write in” answer. The big takeaway is not a matter of what percentage of women said what… it’s that different women have VERY different thoughts on the subject. Any individual woman you meet is going to have her own opinions.
Most women would be more concerned about crooked teeth than a small penis, and most women would be totally fine with crooked teeth… but very few women want a man who is insecure about his penis and constantly trying to prove himself. Very few woman want a man who is more obsessed with the size of his dick than with lusting for HER body. She wants a man who is passionate for her, not freaked out about himself.
The entire data really needs to be released. Your video was informative but it really just scratched the surface. From the video, you just gave the most popular answer with the highest percentage. I think a breakdown of all the answers would be much more helpful. For example, while many men have stated that they prefer women with large breasts, I have heard many men say that they prefer women with smaller breasts. Sadly, I have never heard a woman say that she prefers a guy with a below-average small penis. Alex, you have said that that there are women who did answer that they preferred a smaller penis. In the video, the only information that you revealed on penis size preference was the average of 6 inches. I would love to know that there were a percentage of women that answered 4 or 5 inches. So, would many other guys like me that are in that size range. Besides that one, I’d love to see the entire answers to the other questions as well. That’s why I’d love for you to transfer that critical researched data to this site.
Hey Stephen, I hadn’t considered that point, and I agree with you. Not to sound like I’m being a smarmy marketer, because honestly, I don’t remember, but I *might* have included that information in the actual Unleash The Beast course.
In any case, for your own use, I can tell you this much for sure: Most women simply don’t care that much. The question is not merely correlated to, “many men like smaller boobs,” but actually many men don’t care that much because they are much more interested in a woman’s ass, her eyes, or even her feet… but for women this is exaggerated because physical characteristics in general rate much lower for most women.
Using myself as an example, I don’t give much thought to a woman’s feet. I suppose I know a pretty foot when I see one, the girl who could do a pedicure ad… and I suppose that, all things being equal, I’d like the woman I date to have pretty feet. But… seriously… do I care if she doesn’t? No. Will I be disappointed that, though she is wonderful in so many other ways, damn… just can’t get over that weird thing with her middle toe being so long?
But, of course, there are men who notice feet FIRST, and so too, there are women who are not going to want to date a man with a 4 inch penis. But for most women, this will be easy to dismiss if he knows how to use it well and has his self esteem on lock down.